When you love someone back do you really love them for who they are? Or do you love them because they love you? You see yourself reflected in their eyes. You see a version of yourself that seems perfect, infallible. Maybe it’s just that this person loves you despite your imperfections. Is it really a feeling of love for this person if that’s the reason? Maybe you love them for how they make you feel. Is that wrong? What are the right reasons to start to love someone? Does it make sense to ask yourself whether you really love them or if you just like how much they like you? Does that seem like a legitimate question? Shouldn’t you be able to answer that?